A letter to someone feeling suicidal
- Oonagh Hoey

- Sep 4, 2019
- 2 min read
You are loved. You are loved more than your brain will let you acknowledge in this moment.
Please reach out.
Do it now.
I refuse to let you think you have to struggle in silence. Let this be the voice to fill this silence and encourage you to remember someone loves you.
Don’t hesitate to ask for help.
I love you. Tell someone immediately.
You are worth it.
Once you’ve contacted someone,
Go on to read this carefully from start to finish while you await their arrival.
Even in this moment: there is still hope. The outlook may appear grim – but, in this finite world, all is temporary. Pain and sadness included. It will pass.
There is a future for you.
There is still love to cling to and laughter to experience.
Yes – even now.
Understand this: I know it’s dark. I know you may feel completely and utterly helpless. I know it’s absolutely horrifying. Your brain is telling you no one could or would ever miss you.
That is a lie.
Friend, I know this may be one of the lowest points in your life — all too well I know this.
But…that is not all I know.
listen to me.
Don’t go.
There is still light – Trust in that.
If not now… soon.
Light always bursts through the expanse of night. It always does.
Find peace in this promise.
You are not helpless.
No one is. With each second you choose to stay, you are fighting for purpose and continuing to write your beautiful story.
I assure you this nightmare doesn’t last forever. It comes in waves and in seasons – but, it does and will pass. If you left this earth , someone would notice, and their heart would shatter. Whether hundreds of people or just one person – your beautiful soul would be missed and the world would not be the same.
You matter.
You may view yourself as simply one person in this enormous world, but, for at least one person, you are an enormous part of their world.
I just desperately need you to understand how
loved you truly are. There is still time. Your heart is beating. That thumping against your chest signifies opportunity and hope, your aspirations, memories, your dreams and convictions, passions, willpower, and the resilience you possess to make it to tomorrow. It is there at the core of your being. Don’t give that up. Please don’t.
This may be your lowest of lows, but this is not the end for you. Rise up. Break the silence. Use your voice – people are listening. There is music to be heard. There are lyrics to learn .There are books to read and hugs to receive. We have dreams to dream and limits to push. There are expectations to defy and journeys to pave. There are memories left to capture in photos .
You matter.
You are unique.
You are strong..
You are beautiful.
You are loved.
The world would not be the same without you. We are all uniquely, beautifully, and wonderfully made. Even from our pain comes beauty.
I love you. Please reach out. Tell your story. Don’t give up and please –
don’t go. Xx


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